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Choosing Appropriate Flowers to Send as a family friend to a funeral by Adele Rae Florists

Choosing Appropriate Flowers to Send as a family friend to a funeral by Adele Rae Florists

The passing of a loved one is a difficult and sensitive time, and expressing condolences through flowers can provide solace and comfort to the grieving family. As a family friend, selecting the right flowers for a funeral requires careful thought and consideration. Understanding the symbolic meaning and appropriate etiquette can help convey your heartfelt condolences and support during this difficult period.

Different flowers carry diverse meanings and emotions, making them a powerful means of expressing sentiments. In the context of funerals, certain blooms are traditionally associated with mourning, sympathy, and respect. Lilies, for example, symbolize innocence, purity, and the rebirth of the soul, making them a common choice for funerals. Roses, especially white and light-colored ones, mean reverence and honor. Chrysanthemums, are also a popular choice for funeral arrangements. 

Consider your relationship with the family

The choice of flowers can also be guided by the relationship you shared with the deceased and their family. If the person who passed away had a favourite flower or colour, you can incorporate  these elements into the arrangement. However, if you're uncertain about the deceased's preferences, opt for classic choices like whites for a man's service of light paster clours for a lady.

Funeral floral arrangements come in various forms, from hand-tied bouquets to funeral wreaths, floral baskets and standing sprays. As a family friend, you might choose to send a floral basket, a standing spray, or a vase arrangement. These larger arrangements are typically displayed during the funeral service and serve as a tribute to the departed. When sending flowers, it's essential to ensure the delivery timing aligns with the family's wishes. Some might prefer flowers to be delivered to their home before the service, while others might appreciate them at the funeral home or the church. Additionally, include a card expressing your codolences and support to the family.

Apart from the visual and symbolic aspects, consider to select long-lasting flowers, as funerals can span several days, and enduring flowers will continue to offer comfort. Chrysanthemums, carnations and lilies are long lasting flowers.

In the end, the primary objective of sending flowers to a funeral as a family friend is to show support, offer condolences, and provide comfort to the grieving family. The thought and care put into selecting an appropriate floral arrangement will undoubtedly be appreciated during their time of need. In the midst of grief, your gesture of sending flowers serves as a heartfelt expression of sympathy, demonstrating your support and care for the family during this challenging period of loss.

We are a local florist in the Vancouver Lower Mainland, our flower shop in Burnaby, BC, Canada is located at 4714 Hastings St., near the Brentwood area and close to Metrotown and East Vancvouver. We are a funeral flower expert delivering flowers all across Greater Vancouver. Same-day flower delivery available if ordered before noon. We've been serving our community since 1963. Get your funeral flowers delivered to any church, burial park or funeral home in Metro Vancouver.